Now the fun, lets use an example, ok like right now, i suppose i do have a current, "interest" in someone..The whole thing is quite funny..i mean here i am likely telling myself that this person is actually recipricating the feelings and that its mutual, but in reality, this person is most likely not feeling the same way at all.Ok instead of referring to them as "this person" lets call them..”Reg” Now there is a very tricky subliminal significance to this name, but thats for me to know..So Reg, is..QUITE the character..appears to have half a brain so right away thats a plus, i mean, theres got to be some intellectual stimulation right...and then on the other hand Reg is quite attractive, and lets face it..depsite what alot of people will say, looks do matter..and i think, i’d rather someone make fun of me for my looks, as opposed to my personality, i mean If you’re going to judge someone, judge them on something materialistic and shallow, don’t judge someone because you don’t like their personality. I’m not professing everyone has a great personality, but atleast everyone, hopefully has ATLEAST a unique way of thinking, i mean some people may come off as..trying to imitate someone else, but deep down they’ve GOT to be unique in some way right?now lets move on to something else, what people say, and what they think..the difference between the two is not suprisingly.. VERY different..lets take this guy for example..i know this guy..lets just call him..”Mr nice guy”..whether he was actually as nice as he acted or not..i’ll never know..I mean this guy, must have read a book or something on, “all the right answers, a guide to getting into her pants" because seriously..he was..TEXTBOOK, everything he did...fake fake fake..and in return what did he get from me? Fake fake fake..i mean, he was talented..but..i couldn't shake the thought, of him sitting in his bedroom reading up on all of this...So while he was the best i've had hes also the worst..well actually..its a toss-up between Mr.nice guy, and Mr. Inconsiderate.. HE was..well theres no words..it was ALL wrong..horribly wrong..Mr. nice guy should..i don't know lend him a book or something..look at me being shallow and judging on sexual preformance, and just to clear something up, i did not have sex..i was just..taking the cars for..a test drive..gotta look under the hood before you buy the car right..But if i hadn't judged on their abilities in the sack, what would i have judged them on? their personality, do you know how time consuming that would be, if something doesn't instantly draw you to a person, why waste your time, getting to know them anyways... maybe thats a problem, not taking the time..maybe we have to just slow down..the whole world, take a breath, and put the time and effort into getting to know someone, maybe not...but... "who we are in bed..is who we are in life" -Sex and the city. (Sam Jones)
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